I'm dating the trumpeter in my school band, and the band teacher said it makes him nervous when he puts his arm around me and today he used his megaphone to shout at us to stop holding hands. Both of those are allowed by the school rules. The band teacher's married since, like, 3 or 4 years. I'm jsut wondering what might be going on in his head, 'cos it seems unlikely that all PDA makes him uneasy since he's newly married.....What do you think?