My wife of five years has made all of the arrangements without my knowledge, for the two of us and an old boyfriend of hers and his wife to meet for an evening meal together while we are on vacation in the state that he and his wife live in. What the blank. I know that my wife was devastated when the relationship ended and that she misses him. and continues to be friendly with his mom and gets updates about him when she talks to his mom. I am ok with her being friendly with his mom but to continue to want to be friendly with an old flame that ended the relationship days before he was to move to another state, that he never told her about. What is up with this?
So like the day before we are to go on vacation my wife tells me of these plans and I flip. I tell her that I feel that it is wrong and that it feel that it was disrespectful of her and him to me to make these plans without even asking me. My wife says that I am wrong and that there is nothing wrong with her wanting to meet her ex and his wife. Well we went on vacation and did not meet up with the ex. Now that we are back my wife is mad at me about the issue and I think that she is talking with the ex on facebook when I an not around. Any ideas?
So like the day before we are to go on vacation my wife tells me of these plans and I flip. I tell her that I feel that it is wrong and that it feel that it was disrespectful of her and him to me to make these plans without even asking me. My wife says that I am wrong and that there is nothing wrong with her wanting to meet her ex and his wife. Well we went on vacation and did not meet up with the ex. Now that we are back my wife is mad at me about the issue and I think that she is talking with the ex on facebook when I an not around. Any ideas?