Wife watches internet porn?

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I was going through our computers web browsing history about a month ago and noticed that my wife has been visiting interracial sex sites while im at work. I haven't said anything to her about it yet because im kinda embarrassed to ask and embarrassed to embarrass her but is this normal and is it anything to be worried about. I think she has a fetish for bigger men or something of the sort because those are the types of sites she visits. It probably wouldn't bother me at all if i wasn't small in the department in question but i guess the fact that I am makes me insecure about the whole thing. Am I crazy for worrying or should I just let her do her thing?
 
try to watch porn together with her in the weekend,which will be a reason to watch more then one movie.
This will be a gateway for you to know about her opinion about it without being prejudice.
 
Get into it with her it can be fun ! After all its just fantasy
 
If it is hurting you and your marriage, yes, you should bring it up. And if you guys are religious, you should definitely bring it up.
Pornography is thought of as being a man's problem, but women can get addicted, too.
She may not be doing it because she is dissatisfied with you or your sex life. It may just be a fascination, or it could be something she's been doing for a long time, before she met you, and it's a habit or an addiction at this point. She may be just indulging fantasies that she wouldn't be comfortable acting out in real life. She could be using it as a way to relax and zone out. Who knows, there are a lot of reasons she could be doing it.
Just let her know that you want to fulfill all her sexual needs. You guys might consider some marriage counseling, based on what she tells you. At the very least, you need to have a long conversation about why she does it, how she feels about your sex life together, how it makes you feel, and if there are things you need to be doing to satisfy her better, not just in the bedroom, but emotionally as well.
 
I totally do not think you should worry....just yet. As long as everything is going well in "your department", that is you and your wife's department, then it's no biggie.

You should be more concerned with are you and your wife spending adequate time together? Do you show her the attention and affection she needs?

Alot of men think that its abnormal for a woman to enjoy certain sites because society has programmed us to think that it is only men who like the visual stimulation, but that isn't always the case. So, in my opinion, as a woman, I think that her looking online isn't a problem until she would much prefer to do that than spend time with you (be with you in that way).

And, if it gets to that point, then you should talk to her about it and see how you guys can spice things up again.

I hope I helped.
 
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