I am 22 never had a girlfriend and never getting one. All through highschool I wanted a girlfriend but couldnt even talk to women, so never had one or went to prom or any of that. I started college thinking hey everyone gets girlfriends/relationships in college, but went through my first year never got close or even talked that much to women. Second year college still thought hey maybe someday way in the future it will happen for me. After my second year though just started to realize hey Im not like everyone else I am a loner and outcast and thats just who I am. Now in my 4th year I know I was meant to be alone. While relationships and all that are normal for most people, for me its not. I don't even like being touched, like sometimes my mom tries to hug me if I stop over now and I dont like it. So I have finally figured out what I wish I would have known all those years ago, as a kid wondering what was wrong with me that no one liked me or cared. It feels so good to finally know this and who I am and have been all these years. I have accepted that I am a loner for life and all that relationship crap wouldnt work out for me anyway, so im set in stone about being alone. Only problem people have started to get nosey. Mom starting to ask if I met any girls more often and few friends not really good ones but friends are saying need to be screwing chicks. How do I tell everyone I am just a loner for life with out them thinking Im weird????