would be unfair to ask my gf to follow some rules when meeting my family?

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Ok so my gf is going to a family party soon, she knows my mum, dad and siblings but this would be extended family. I want to set up four rules:
1. dont drink (im not drinking either)
2. set up a "shut up now" signal
3. set up a "help me" signal
4. dont do anything I dont do

would it be unfair to suggest this?
 
no thats fine. your smart thinking ahead to prevent any issue or embarrassment!

I often warn my dates about my family and say hey , don't do this or say this or act like this. Only cause i don't want my dates to feel uncomfortable :)

cheers
 
Not at all, it makes perfect sense to me. Do mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Arb8TWuTUBM19hWbeYaxJZLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20111118182015AA1GT3p
 
nooo if i would be happy if my boyfriend discussed this with me!!
 
not at all,you just want them to like her,im doing the same thing with my boyfriend,its for the best
 
No! She'll probably feel more comfortable that way(: However I think Rule Four is a bit ridiculous, talk to her first though! Best of luck(:
 
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