"Accommodating religious nut job" ... hey, I've never had a moniker before. Cool.
I think you need to spend less energy on things that do not exist. Either that or just ignore people when they are being dumb. They can choose to be arrogant, accommodating, passive, inspiring, or downright divine. After all, a decision to become a Christian does not make you glow in the dark ... it's just a quality decision. My church has a sign out front that reads, "No perfect people allowed."