...west what can I do? she complained about in some countries there are now more kids being call abdul and ahmed as if this was a terrible thing. She said she is not racist but just nationalistic but she was just wrong right. I told her I wasn't cool with how she talked and the day after I left on holiday. She hasn't talked to me since getting back. I would rather help her see where she is wrong then never talk to her again. We are both white europeans but from different countries, however living in a third country