A question about a threesomes and relationships.?

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My boyfriend really wants a threesome and i don't want one AT ALL and he is dying for one. He talks about it constantly knowing how i feel about it. I don't know what to do. Hey guys, If you are wanting a threesome as much as you want your girl what does it mean?? Is that she is not enough or not good enough??
 
Know how you feel. My g/f and I hadn't gone one on one yet before she suggested a threesome. You think its wierd a guy not wanting a threeway? she wanted another guy involved. - Now look where I am!!!! fuck.......Was a shite feeling. We never went through with one. Never had sex with eachother, then we broke up - not long ago.

We still talk and are mates though - But if you don't want it - don't take it
 
No, this does not mean that you are not good enough for him. A lot of people, both men and women share this fantasy. The swinging lifestyle isn't for everyone, but for those who are secure in their relationship, it can add a level of passion and excitement that many find very rewarding. Having said this, if you are not okay with the idea, and your boyfriend continues to push the issue, I suggests that he doesn't respect your feelings about the matter. If that is the case, then I would say it's time for you to consider ending the relationship and finding someone who will treat you better. Remember, for a relationship to succeed, it must include mutual love, respect and trust. If your relationship with your boyfriend doesn't involve all three of these things it will never last. Best of luck to you and your boyfriend.
I hope i helped.
 
It doesn't necessarily mean you're not good enough for him . . . it probably simply means that this is an intense fantasy he has and wants to fulfill.

If he doesn't respect your wishes to not do this, I'd suggest re-thinking him. Good partners don't try to pressure you into doing something you don't want.
 
I can't give you the guy's point of view but I can tell you I kinda know what you're going through. My bf also wants to have a threesome and I was completely against it at first. I had always believed that it was wrong to bring someone else into such a intimate thing, but my mindset has changed. Throughtout the whole thing, my bf has allowed me to make my own decision and not pushed it further. If you're bf really cares for you, he will accept the fact that you're not ready or don't approve of that kinda thing. And it doesn't mean that he thinks you're not good enough or anything. It's just a fantasy that most guys have.
 
If you don't want the experience, don't do it. If he wants another girl, so badly, dump him and go find another boyfriend who doesn't need the experience.
They just need the excitement.
If you are not into it, it will end badly for you.
 
he has some sort of fantasy he wants to fulfill. if that's something you're not into, then TELL him if he doesn't care, then he obviously didnt care about you to begin with,
 
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