I didnt say they were equal - but equally tragic. Equal in that sense. When my mom and her siblings lost their 19 year old brother and some decade later, their dad in his 50's, they felt the same grief and loss. They werent, Well, im gonna cry over the brother more because hes younger and didnt live long enough. ( also dont believe kids are innocent either - there are enough stories about kids who do bad things and they do know the difference though yes the law treats minors different, and thats correct, they are not adults - but I think its absurd to call them innocent - but thats another topic. )
But this happened to me, and I blew up at an ex fb friend for doing it. When i complained on my fb that a guy stood me up for like the 9th time and I finally got rid of him for good, Not a word from this fb user. But when a kid did it to her daughter, suddenly its a tragedy and she had to put it on her wall. Screw me right, my CHILD! and she said my child is only 7 and she dont understand about why people do such things - well neither do I! I dont understand why he did that to me. Im not 7 but why is her hurt worse? I dont understand it either why people do bad things! Especially cause I was nothing but kind to this guy. Even when he came out as bi and had troubles finding out who he was. I was there forh im when he wanted to talk. But this ex fb user had not a word for my fb post. I got rid of her.