Adult GUYS please: Did he just want sex? If not, Can I call or talk to him?

Katie

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I had 2 dates with this guy, 2nd one we made out heavily... but one night my friend borrowed my phone (without my knowledge) and sent a booty call to my guy by accident when she was drunk meaning to send it to her boyfriend. I didnt realize this til a WEEK later. So when I was erasing my texts I saw it and explained it to the guy i like over text, I wanted to call him but he didnt have reception in his apartment. We texted a bit...then I said I have something embarrassing and sorta funny to tell you...he said What's embarrassing??

Me: My friend borrowed my phone & sent a booty call text to you instead of her boyfriend. I didnt realize it til today when i was erasing my texts. I dont want you to think I was rushing things. See embarrassing and long lol.

Him: The one about finishing what we started you didnt send? That'd be nice.
Why shouldnt we hook up?

Me: I'm not saying we should never...im just saying I wouldnt be that forward so early on..

Him: No?

Me: No, I'm not some booty call girl. I think you're cool but that's just not me. Sorry if that text made you think otherwise.

Him: Well your friend sent it anyway

Me: True. I had a nice time but if that's all you're lookin for...maybe we should just be friends.

Him: Yeah

I didnt mean that. I just didnt want to sleep with him too soon but I DONT want to be just friends and I KNOW he doesnt. I took his "yeah" to mean he did just want a booty call...but maybe Im wrong...I need a guys perspective. Would the "friends" bother him. Can I just call him & explain?
 
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