Always arguing with family, always feeling angry and always feeling incomplete.?

[Jacob]

I'm 17 work and study full time, I work 5 days a week and do a uni course that is full time. I have been doing this for 6 months now and im very stressed. I need the money to pay for expenses though so i cannot give it up. I can be so nice to everyone at work but when i come home im so angry at everyone. I haven't spoken to one brother for weeks and the other we always get into fights. Even worse me and my mum used to do everything together, now we argue almost everyday and at least once a week something happens that makes me not talk to her for days at a time. My relationship with my dad is snappy and we always have a go at each other. I hate it how i make my family feel and i hate it even more i make my mum upset. When i think about how i make my mum feel i fell very depressed. I have made it so awkward between my mum, dad and brothers that i feel like the only way is to move into a university house. I don't know what to do, but what ever im going to do has to happen fast. I cant stand being like this and making my family upset. If something doesn't happen fast i know im going to do something i regret...

 

[naomi]

you need to either control yourself and restrict your remarks to the weather, or quit your job or lighten your load somewhere. Your mother's emotions are more important than you making petty cash, focus on school and family, that's what I'd do.

 

[Candygirl]

running away from your problems isnt going to solve much. being stressed is normal. you just have to relax when u get home tell everyone hi eat dinner have family time for an hour then go take a nap. when i was 14 i started working, and since i started i've never stopped, i worked so much i didn't have time to hang out with friends outside school much less have time to myself, but i knew i was bettering myself and stressing was an everyday thing . but i would get home from work eat dinner play with my little sister maybe clean around the house, go took to my brother for a few see how he was doing with his boxing. say good night go up to my room take a bath talk on the phone listen to music and just chill.. i know it sounds like a lot but it help me... the only way to fix this problem is to find ways to make it easier. good luck

 

[rey]

I know were your coming from, but try everything possible to fix you relationship with your family. As I did bad choices in my young life (21) and barley have a relationship with my family. Not having a family relationship is the worst feeling in life as they are the only ones that TRYLLY care for you, your still hecka young and have time to fix those family bonds.... take this advice from a person that failed his family miserably and lost their trust, and connection.


Good luck!!!