I have been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks. We recently had a talk, where he said, "well what do you want with this, because I don't know what I want". I told him that I didn't know him well enough to want anything serious yet, but I was enjoying our time together. He agreed and said that we should just let it happen. I also told him I'd be sad if he was dating anyone else, and he said he promised he was not (I trust this). He said that he had been having fun and likes spending time with me and hopes it doesn't change soon. I have been screwed over a lot in the past, so I always have my guard up to the point where I'm being paranoid. Are these things that guys would lie about, or can I trust that he is at least open to a future with me?