my ex and i are trying to repair our "friendship". i told him its best that i stay away from him while he is in this "single" faze bc i dont want to get hurt more than i already have. and i dont want to feel unconfortable..i recently found out that he flirts sooo much on FB. I cant stand reading the flirting. My point. I told him i am not comfortable knowing that he's trying to be cool with me as friends and i know in the back of my mind that he isnt into me like that and i still have feelings so i told him i'd just leave him alone.
He tells me he flirts for the "entertainment" when he's bored.. i tell him that even though you can't control other females comments.. you can control your own and not flirt back.. so they will see that you have boudries.
then tells me im overreacting and that its not fair im giving him an ultimatum. Why doesnt he see that it hurts me and that i want to protect myself.. if he's not into me like that.. theres no need for us to be friends. DOnt you think???
Is it normall to feel insecure knowing he flirts online? is it normal to feel like i dont
He tells me he flirts for the "entertainment" when he's bored.. i tell him that even though you can't control other females comments.. you can control your own and not flirt back.. so they will see that you have boudries.
then tells me im overreacting and that its not fair im giving him an ultimatum. Why doesnt he see that it hurts me and that i want to protect myself.. if he's not into me like that.. theres no need for us to be friends. DOnt you think???
Is it normall to feel insecure knowing he flirts online? is it normal to feel like i dont