Am I messed up because I laugh at people who cry?

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BeckGriffin

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When I see someoen crying or upset, I don't care. i stare and look, only in amazement that someone can be that weak, lacking self-control. When someone tells me they like me, or have feelings for me, or 'care' about me. I dont feel a thing. I just sit there, with a dumb-founded look. I don't know why. When people die, i've recently lost someone, a girl that i did love for a long time.. I didn't feel anything. Everyone was crying around me and I just stood there, and then i went home and did some reading. When people show me affection, like trying to kiss or hug me, i pull away. It makes me very uncomfortable. i can laugh, and have fun but the moment anybody gets all smushy and you know, shows emotion with me, I pull away.

Is this normal?

I think its funny sometimes. When people die, like for example someone falling off a cliff 'by accident'
or when someone is being hit my a car.. Also, its amazingly enetertaining, how easy it is to lie to people I know. I've truly mastered the art of lying throughout the years. These people believe anything.
 
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Bonnie

Member
i really think your messed up. who would like to there freinds seriously.
and sure somtimes life can be funny
but if ya keep pulling away from love your giong to end up no where in life
 
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Andrew1

Active member
actually, yes. humans are biologically programmed to pity or share the pain of other humans, this is a form of ignorance.

people who don't are called psychopaths (or sociapaths?), psychopathy is the total absence of emotion, a form of mental retardation. i find i'm the same, i real don't fell any intense emotions or family love, and couldn't imagine anything other than physical pain that i would truly find painful.

so technically yes this is a retardation or 'messed up'. but as long as you can lie and pretend to be a 'good person' you can function in society normally and you just miss out on all that pain that others feel.
 
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TamiaGoddar

New member
your not messed up.. your perfectly normal
but you need to take in consideration everyone is not as strong as you
also how would you feel if somebody was laughing at you?
 
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STEPHEN

Member
Yes you are very messed up!! When you die I hope someone records it and puts it on YouTube for the whole world to laugh at, since that's probably what you want.
 
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Eliot

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no its not normal but its not your fault so who can blame you did you have a bad experience as a child or anything like that?
 
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corbs

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Well, honestly, I think you need to seek counseling, to determine why you are unable to feel emotion. That's my best suggestion. Good luck!
 
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