Another dating question lol?

Lonelygirl87

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So in a nutshell:
I'm 23 and female and I met this guy online who's only 20. We start talking online and texting, getting to know each other. Even though he's younger than me, I liked him. Then, he told me he doesn't have a car, but he's working on getting one. That kinda bothered me a little, because that means I'd be the one driving us around all the time, and gas is expensive and I hate driving, but on the other hand I respected the fact that he was working on getting his own car, instead of his parents just handing it to him. So I let it go. We went on 3 dates, which were amazing dates that lasted for hours on end. then, tonight out of nowhere, he facebook messages me telling me he thinks we should quit seeing each other because he still has feelings for his ex. WTF? He was the one who got online and he was the one who pursued me, and I wasted not only my time for him (I have a very busy schedule) but also my gas??? Then, he got mad at me for being upset. what a douche, right? Plus, he didn't even offer to pay for my dinner or anything, even though I was the one who was driving his happy ass around. I'm super pissed. We only went on three dates, so it's not that big of a deal, but the fact that he pretty much used me for rides and shit and ended things over facebook is super annoying. Any words of comfort would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
Also, I did NOT have sex with him, thank goodness!!!
 
maybe his ex's car gets better gas mileage? Just kidding. He sounds like a loser your beter off without him and not having too much invested in the relationship.
 
I don't know if this is comforting to know, but he just saved you from heartbreak or dating/marrying a complete loser. No guy in his right mind makes his date pay for her dinner and drive her around, that is just lame. Trust me when I say this, you are so much better off. As for the dates that were "amazing", those are just people on their absolute behavior. There's red flags all over this douche, and you're better off without him
 
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