Are you really gay if you......?

[mysterious]

How can lesbians say that are lesbians when often times they are dating a butch(look like a dude) and same with men that are gay? I understand they have the same sex organs as you but whats the difference from being attracted to "butch" or "fem dude"?

 

[matica2222]

Why do some straight guys like large women when others prefer tiny women?

Why do some straight girls like musclemen and others like average joes?

All a matter of personal preference.