As a Christian, have you regretted premarital sex?

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Title pretty much says it, but I seriously would like to know if there are any other Christians out there who haven't regretted having sex before they're married, be it with a boyfriend, fiance, eventual husband, or what have you. Has your decision affected your life in a negative or positive way?

To be clear, I'm not asking your views on religion or sex. I know there are plenty of different opinions on the subjects, but I really just want to know your experiences and how you felt about it. Thanks :)
Also to clarify, I'm not asking for validation or accountability of any feelings or actions. I've never regretted the decision to have sex, and as a Christian I know there's a huge deal made about it, which I do believe is undeserved.

I'm just curious to know others' experiences being a Christian and non-virgin.
Did you begin to regret your decision soon after, or years later? I guess I just don't understand the mindset in regretting something so much, and knowing you would in advance, but still doing it.
 
to answer YOUR question...I have my wife.. not all that and a bag of chips but because he wants it that way for the benifeit of my daughter...relate to that my the world is going to end soon christian!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Yes in many ways I regret that I did have premarital sex with women who were not my intended bride. My flesh was weak and I was not living in a Christ like life at the time. I was living in a carnal mind only thinking about that which would pleasure me. It got me into trouble a few times. Nothing too serious mind you but close enough. If I was living a Christ like life then I would have done better at a few things.
 
You have no idea...

and not even because it is a sin, and saddens God. i regret it for personal reasons...

I'm still torn between the premarital sex issue. So many people have differing views. I personally take things like "adultery" literally when God tells us not to do it, and I think it still holds true now 2000 something years after Jesus...
 
When you have sex with someone, biblically you are joined to them as one.
 
Yes, but not because it was premarital. I just feel like I gave my first time to the wrong girl. I'm ok with premarital sex as long as you use protection.
 
regret is useless. Christians like to make each other feel bad... quite frankly, i think most Christians missed Jesus' idea completely... why would you regret it? Would you're life be awsomely different if you waited till you were married? Or is it that you think gods gunna punish you for it? Just live your life, and try not to harm anyone else along the way, i think god will appriciate that.
 
There were no ill effects or victims, but given the chance to relive it, I would not have.
 
It was a mistake. I married the man. I have learned to ask God for forgiveness and forgave myself.
 
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