so this is awkward but, me and my boy friend decided to have sex the other day. and it hurt, like a lot. ive been with a lot of guys and it never hurt like that. so after he left i decided to see what was going on down their and i fingered myself. and it was very tight. it was so tight, i was barely able to get my finger in. so yea i no this is kind of weird and awkward. but why did my hole get so tight? my bf has really been wanting to have sex and i felt bad that we had to stop. and we did use lube but it didnt help at all. this is the first time this has ever happened to me.