My brother does not speak to me or my father - apart from when he wants something. (My mother died some time ago) He has ordered a credit card to this address - not his and my father is too passive to deal with it and doesn't care about the recriminations. I am holding the card until I decide what to do, but cant, in my conscience give it to him when my brother:
has a phone on contract in my dad's name and doesn't pay monthly fee
borrowed money from my dad and not giving it back
ordered another phone pretending to be my dad
Their argument started when my dad asked him to leave because of his bullying and taking more money out of my Dad's atm than he was told too. I lent him money one xmas to see his kids and never got it back, that's why we don't speak. I finally stood up to him, and even if it means not seeing my nephews, I so not want him in my life because he abused me and denied it to my family. I am on my own with this and desperate for help. I can not let my brother treat my father like this.
has a phone on contract in my dad's name and doesn't pay monthly fee
borrowed money from my dad and not giving it back
ordered another phone pretending to be my dad
Their argument started when my dad asked him to leave because of his bullying and taking more money out of my Dad's atm than he was told too. I lent him money one xmas to see his kids and never got it back, that's why we don't speak. I finally stood up to him, and even if it means not seeing my nephews, I so not want him in my life because he abused me and denied it to my family. I am on my own with this and desperate for help. I can not let my brother treat my father like this.