Freeatlast
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- Nov 21, 2008
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...just some fun to him.? I've known him for over a year. I'm 23 and he's in his 30s. He is separated from his gf - never married. There's signs to suggests he's interested, but how do I know if it's genuine or a bit of fun.
- He lends his jacket whenever he thinks I look cold & he will always come over top speak to me.
- He gets jealous of other guys (especially younger)
- He held my hand when talking to me once, before I knew him that well. (I think he grabbed it subconsciously.
- He buys me drinks, & once a friend said thanks, but he said it was just for Rose (He calls me Rose, instead of Rosie)
- One night, I left my friends house, (she invited him & his friend over too), but I came back because I left something. He opened the door & grabbed me towards him & started saying I'm very special, & if he could....but he doesn't want to mess up my life. I didn't know what to say. He looked all frustrated. Since then, we've acted how we did previously, as like that moment never happened.
- We were at my friends for a 2nd time however, & we were finally left alone. He said how everyone says we should get together, & he was very shy for a man who's really confident. He was mumbling & suggested maybe we should go to dinner. He said he fancies the pants of me & it's a nice feeling, & thinks I'm gorgeous.Then he said he wished he could just scoop me up. But he said "you don't want to cuddle with me". We said bye & he kissed me on the lips, but I went to kiss him on the cheek. A few days later he called me, but I missed it, so he text.
Since I've seen him 2 or 3 times. We didn't get a chance to talk alone as usual. A few nights ago I bumped into him & he text me after. During the conversation he said it would be a pleasure if I wanted to share dinner with him some time, & said it was lovely to see me. He kept texting me & eventually we said goodnight.
So now he's asked me to dinner, & I said maybe dinner would be nice when I'm finished with all the work & he wished me all the best with it. Shall I wait & see if it happens, or it's just some fun to him?
- He lends his jacket whenever he thinks I look cold & he will always come over top speak to me.
- He gets jealous of other guys (especially younger)
- He held my hand when talking to me once, before I knew him that well. (I think he grabbed it subconsciously.
- He buys me drinks, & once a friend said thanks, but he said it was just for Rose (He calls me Rose, instead of Rosie)
- One night, I left my friends house, (she invited him & his friend over too), but I came back because I left something. He opened the door & grabbed me towards him & started saying I'm very special, & if he could....but he doesn't want to mess up my life. I didn't know what to say. He looked all frustrated. Since then, we've acted how we did previously, as like that moment never happened.
- We were at my friends for a 2nd time however, & we were finally left alone. He said how everyone says we should get together, & he was very shy for a man who's really confident. He was mumbling & suggested maybe we should go to dinner. He said he fancies the pants of me & it's a nice feeling, & thinks I'm gorgeous.Then he said he wished he could just scoop me up. But he said "you don't want to cuddle with me". We said bye & he kissed me on the lips, but I went to kiss him on the cheek. A few days later he called me, but I missed it, so he text.
Since I've seen him 2 or 3 times. We didn't get a chance to talk alone as usual. A few nights ago I bumped into him & he text me after. During the conversation he said it would be a pleasure if I wanted to share dinner with him some time, & said it was lovely to see me. He kept texting me & eventually we said goodnight.
So now he's asked me to dinner, & I said maybe dinner would be nice when I'm finished with all the work & he wished me all the best with it. Shall I wait & see if it happens, or it's just some fun to him?