i'm 15 next month so u could say i'm 15,i'm madly in love with this girl,were close,we are both christians by the way,i have known her since i was 7 and she was 10 and i have loved her since i was 10 but as the years have gone by the more and more i got i love with her,she had 1 boyfriend but he was gettin decippled in the church and writing new songs becausee he holds concerts in the church and my church always goes down every month to,he said he couldn't take it and he was stressed out so he said he needed a brake for about 6 months from dating and he wanted to be closer to God. yesterday my bestfriend was easdropping on his mums conversation with her and she told his mum that she couldn't take it anymore that everytime she goes down to her ex boyfriends church and sees him she forces her self to smile and shes in so much pain cause she loves him and seeing him and not dating himm gets her angry because she loves him and everynight she cries herself to sleep and she said she's going to forget about dating him,When my friend told me this I felt so sorry for her becausee I know how she feels,from the age of 10-13 I just loved her but there was no depression in my life but when i turned 14 two months later my friend told me that she was dating her first boyfriend i got so angry with God and my relationship with God went down and no for the past two months I have been crying in Church during the service and have been lifting my hands up to God during the song service and prayer and this week I have been crying and kneeling down in my bedroom and asking God to help me and tell me what to do because I can't live this way anymore,it hurts me so much that I love her and she is so in love with him,there is no hour I don't think about her and no their not sexual thoughts,she said she is going to go to uni for 4 years and in 4 years time she will be in her last year of uni and i will be in my first year so mabye she might see me as a man then.my best friends mum noticed i liked her and so she asked him and he had to be honest with his mother and told her yes and today when i was helping the guys pack up instruments in church i saw my best friends mum talking to the girl i love and heard my name and the weird thing was after they finished their conversation she was extremely nice to me unlike before,she's always nice but this time felt different.i just need someone to give me advice on what to do because i'm in emotional pain
DrDeanCrosby
Christian Counslor
The Danger Of Romantic Love
This is good advice for anything that causes this to occur," my friend told me she was dating her first boyfriend, i got so angry with God and my relationship with God went down":
Mark 9:43
43 If your hand causes you to sin (getting angry with God), cut it off. It’s better to enter eternal life with only one hand than to go into the unquenchable fires of hell with two hands.
This is good advice for anything that causes this to occur," my friend told me she was dating her first boyfriend, i got so angry with God and my relationship with God went down":
Mark 9:43
43 If your hand causes you to sin (getting angry with God), cut it off. It’s better to enter eternal life with only one hand than to go into the unquenchable fires of hell with two hands.
GlitterMonster
New member
unrequited love is awful. You are really young so do not hold your breath that this is "forever love" but if you like her get it out there on the table. I cannot speak on behalf of every woman, but personally it bugs me when a guy likes me and doesn't ever just spit it out. I want it out on the table, in the open, and deal with the situation from there. What will be will be, but the longer he goes without being honest the more respect I lose for him. He just becomes a brother who gets irritated when that is all I will ever see him as.
PeterFranklin
New member
not a girl, and not a christian (well, depends what you mean) but i used to be a christian, and I had a vry similar situation as you did.
Here's my advice for you: convert to the true religion (original christianity). try to convert your love interest. if you convert her, you WILL marry her. if you do not convert her, you should not marry her.
[email protected] i'll prove to you the true religion and you won't be depressed anymore. i used to be depressed and closed to suicidal, and have had many rejections in my life in the past. also my first marriage ended in a disaster, but that was before i found completely the true religion.
Here's my advice for you: convert to the true religion (original christianity). try to convert your love interest. if you convert her, you WILL marry her. if you do not convert her, you should not marry her.
[email protected] i'll prove to you the true religion and you won't be depressed anymore. i used to be depressed and closed to suicidal, and have had many rejections in my life in the past. also my first marriage ended in a disaster, but that was before i found completely the true religion.
JesuswasaTroll
New member
Too long, you used "u" instead of "you" in the first six words, can't capitalize or punctuate, and don't know what a paragraph is. Nothing you say can be of any consequence.