I tried Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms last night with my girlfriend and the desensitizing gel on the inside of the condom was so strong that after awhile having sex with my girl I got soft... Is that normal? How do I combat that? Should I just wipe some of it off so it's not as strong? The stuff works wonders for helping a guy last for long periods of time it would be ashame not to use them but I have to stay hard I can't have that experience again.