I'm 30 years old (my husband is a few year younger) and have been married to my husband almost 4 years, We've been putting off having a family because of our careers, my husband wants to wait just bit longer, etc.
My husband's very good friend since high school went through a divorce about a year ago. His wife stayed in there house out of their divorce settlement. So instead of staying with his parents all of the time, he stayed at our house, maybe 2-4 weekends out of the month, and occasionaly during the week.
I really messed up, but out of feeling a lot of pity, and because of a lot of flirting and compliments I received from my husband's friend, I've been having an affair with him for nearly 3 months.
I've just found out I'm pregnant, and I don't want an abortion to be an option. My husband uses protection, but on many occasions when I cheated on my husband we didn't use protection. Most of the time we couldn't plan when we would see each other, so protection wasn't always around, and I think the thrill of the entire relationship and not using protection with him was also a turn on for me.
I love my husband and I want to stay married to him. However, I can't tell my husband about this. I don't want to have an abortion. Most importantly, I believe abortions are wrong.
Please help, I can't tell my husband. I've already talked to his friend and his friend said we should discontinue seeing each other, and he wouldn't say anything to my husband- meaning my husband would never know it wasn't his child.
Please, would you do this if you were in my place? My ex lover/husband's friend promises he won't ask for visitation rights...anything.
My husband's very good friend since high school went through a divorce about a year ago. His wife stayed in there house out of their divorce settlement. So instead of staying with his parents all of the time, he stayed at our house, maybe 2-4 weekends out of the month, and occasionaly during the week.
I really messed up, but out of feeling a lot of pity, and because of a lot of flirting and compliments I received from my husband's friend, I've been having an affair with him for nearly 3 months.
I've just found out I'm pregnant, and I don't want an abortion to be an option. My husband uses protection, but on many occasions when I cheated on my husband we didn't use protection. Most of the time we couldn't plan when we would see each other, so protection wasn't always around, and I think the thrill of the entire relationship and not using protection with him was also a turn on for me.
I love my husband and I want to stay married to him. However, I can't tell my husband about this. I don't want to have an abortion. Most importantly, I believe abortions are wrong.
Please help, I can't tell my husband. I've already talked to his friend and his friend said we should discontinue seeing each other, and he wouldn't say anything to my husband- meaning my husband would never know it wasn't his child.
Please, would you do this if you were in my place? My ex lover/husband's friend promises he won't ask for visitation rights...anything.