Do people assume you're more serious than you actually are lol?

[devolut]

Just wanna hear if others are like me:

When you first meet me, I'm cautious. So it can be mistaken for being serious.

Also, if I'm not laughing, I'm DEAD serious. I'm socially bipolar like that.

So often, many ppl have mistakenly written me off as an overly serious, mopey person. But once they get to know me--YOW, I drink, party, sing, laugh, and goof off like no other.

No apologies, folks. I just have layers.

Anyone else the same way?

 

[Okayee]

I am, a bit ,im not dead serious but i am quieter, when I meet you i'll say hi and how are you etc etc, but im a bit guarded, esp in a group or with family, i cant relax around family, and its been years since i lived at home, my parents do that to me. Im friendly, but quiet when i meet ppl and i often get judged and called "quiet" and ppl never bother to get to know me. Layers.. thats a great way to describe it, i have them too, when i know yu better and if yu give me a chance! they come off, when i dont know yu or yu are nasty or judgemental, im polite and friendly, but..ill shut down, and am a bit quiet and guarded, and maybe serious too.
Not all of us can be the life of the party straight up! some ppl take time to know, if only those super confident, loud popular ppl realise this.

yep know how u feel.