I'm 17, a guy, and a virgin. I can understand people being too young for sex because they can't handle the concequenses or religion, or beliefs, watever! but the excuse that you have to be "emotionally" ready just doesn't make sense. It seems you just have to be phyisically able and willing. As a teen guy, i don't see much emotional reasons behind it. But then again teen girls seem to be sooooo much more emotional aout it. ITS JUST SEX!!!!!! the only reason i havn't personally lost it is i never seem to have a condom when hooking up at parties because i think relationships at this age are pointless and only cause heartbreak and hurt. At least thru my exeriences anyway. So call me an A$$ cause i seem shallow and after sex but i don't see why there is such a big deal over virginity and sex. its not much different from BJs and fingering that we all do alot! What do you guys think