Do women simply use sex to trade for things?

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Women are always complaining of "being used" for sex(even when they weren't drugged), a statement I find impossible(unless the girl was drugged) because:

when men and women have sex.... both the man and the woman get sex..... so each person get's sex.... sounds fair right? So how can women complain that they've been "used"?

so seriously, do women just trade sex for material things and then complain they've been "used" when they don't get any rewards for putting out?
 
because when some dominating woman in this world made this statement "being used"..we the dumb men were sitting idle..so they enjoy it
 
Ive never had that complaint. I think the women that get used for sex are the ones that feel their man is only with them for the sex and nothing else. a man that would leave them if they werent putting out. a man that doesnt respect them or treat them very well, that doesnt stick around when things get difficult. a guy that gets angry when she isnt in the mood, or expects her to put out on a regular basis and do sexual favors for him.. . that sort of thing.

women do use sex to trade for some things, and it depends on the situation as to whether or not they are being used. in some instances, just because they are getting some material gain out of it doesnt make it okay, even if they do agree to it, technically they are still being used.
but for those of us in loving committed relationships, who already know that our husbands love us and arent using us, we can trade sex for other things and not feel used for it, because we arent forced into it and we know he'd still be there even without all the sex. sex isnt always as much as a gift for women as it is for men, we arent always in the mood so its not always an equal thing. so a woman "getting" sex isnt always the same reward as a man getting sex.
 
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