Do you prefer to date people who smoke? Is this weird?

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I am a guy and I smoke a lot of cigarettes, sometimes like a pack per day. I know this is bad for me and I have tried to quit. A lot of girlfriends have hated it and nagged me to death about my smoking. Finally, I got so fed up I started dating ONLY women who smoke. I am so much happier now!

Women who are smokers don't complain about by habit. They don't roll their eyes if I want a cigarette after sex. They don't say, "Ugh not ANOTHER one!" every time I need a smoke break. They also don't turn up their nose at my ashtrays, tell me my house stinks or demand that I brush my teeth. Overall, women who smoke just seem more laid back, are not as uptight and when I need a smoke, they usually do too. It just works out better!

I don't have some kinky smoking fetish, it is just a preference. My female friend thinks this is a horrible quality to want in a partner. She says it is "selfish" to want a woman who is ruining her health...I think there is nothing wrong with how I feel. Women who smoke were wrecking their health long before they dated me! I would also be supportive if someone wanted to quit. They also would smoke anyway, even if someone hated it. Am i so weird for dating only fellow smokers? Or does this make sense to anyone? Does this make sense to any smokers out there and do you feel the same?
 
I am a dude with a similiar problem to yours. But I think your thought process on this is completely normal. "Selfish" - what a load of tosh !
 
It makes perfect sense that you'd want t be with someone who is not disgusted by your daily actions. I mean, if you marry a smoker, please make sure you guys don't have kids, but otherwise, it's perfectly nromal for someone to want to date people who don't put them down.



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ur not weird i mean ofcourse u want to date someone with the same interest. but personally, i perfer not to date a smoker.
 
iFell the same !! I've had boyfriends that would always be on me about smoking, they would be like your to beautiful to smoke or something like that. Its understanding, if you would prefer someone that smokes then thats just you.. I prefer that.. So yeppp. & its not weird.
 
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