This may be a bit of a read but since I'll like to have ur opinion and perhaps advice, I'm going to fully explain the whole story....
Nearly 2 yrs ago I dated an old high school friend I've always had a lil bit of a soft spot for (we're both in our 30s now). We dated for about 3 months and busted up over what I feel was just a misunderstanding, or we've gotten off on a bad foot so to speak. Altho I still had feelings for him, we mutually agreed to remain friends. While we were dating we talked about taking a trip together, he mentioned a cruise. He always wanted to go on one but never had the chance. I've been on one a few times. A few months ago a friend at work had two tickets for a cruise but couldn't go and was selling the tickets. She was selling them pretty cheap so naturally I offered to buy them. While figuring out who to ask to go with me, I remembered him and how he said he always wanted to go on one. Honestly I didn't expect him to say yes, because since we're now just friends he normally doesn't want to do much together, I guess I just asked him at first to see what he would say. Surprisingly he said yes. The agreement was since I was paying for the cruise tickets he would pickup the cost for the airfare. All seemed fine for a while but lately hes been acting kinda cold towards me asking what he's interesting in doing like tours etc. He keeps saying he don't care what we do, doesn't matter to him. Not that I'm trying to be the nag or anal but have been on many cruises before most of the island tours get booked up before you set sail. But he don't care, so i guess I'll pick whatever and let him deal with it. But now it has me thinking, will this whole trip b a good idea, what should do while on the trip with him, how to act towards him on it....blah....blah...blah... I guess in a small foolish way I'm hoping the time together may rekindle things, but now I'm getting mixed feelings about it all. What do u think?
Nearly 2 yrs ago I dated an old high school friend I've always had a lil bit of a soft spot for (we're both in our 30s now). We dated for about 3 months and busted up over what I feel was just a misunderstanding, or we've gotten off on a bad foot so to speak. Altho I still had feelings for him, we mutually agreed to remain friends. While we were dating we talked about taking a trip together, he mentioned a cruise. He always wanted to go on one but never had the chance. I've been on one a few times. A few months ago a friend at work had two tickets for a cruise but couldn't go and was selling the tickets. She was selling them pretty cheap so naturally I offered to buy them. While figuring out who to ask to go with me, I remembered him and how he said he always wanted to go on one. Honestly I didn't expect him to say yes, because since we're now just friends he normally doesn't want to do much together, I guess I just asked him at first to see what he would say. Surprisingly he said yes. The agreement was since I was paying for the cruise tickets he would pickup the cost for the airfare. All seemed fine for a while but lately hes been acting kinda cold towards me asking what he's interesting in doing like tours etc. He keeps saying he don't care what we do, doesn't matter to him. Not that I'm trying to be the nag or anal but have been on many cruises before most of the island tours get booked up before you set sail. But he don't care, so i guess I'll pick whatever and let him deal with it. But now it has me thinking, will this whole trip b a good idea, what should do while on the trip with him, how to act towards him on it....blah....blah...blah... I guess in a small foolish way I'm hoping the time together may rekindle things, but now I'm getting mixed feelings about it all. What do u think?