I work in a hostile environment and all my coworkers are women. I was hired about 4 months ago along with 2 other girls. There seems to constantly be an environment off gossip, disagreements and everyone trying to point out everyone's mistakes to make themselves look good. I have avoided this and pretty much stay to myself. Now I am cordial and friendly but do not get into the drama and fights. My supervisors complimented me on my pleasant attitude with customers. However the manager of my office seems to have a problem with me. I do not see her very often as she is tucked away in her office but she is always staring at me and looking at me weird. Some of the other co-workers kiss up to her and bring her lunch and act like the world revolves around her and I treat her polite and respectful but not to the point of kissing booty, lol
Like yesterday I was organizing some books and she kept walking past me wanting me to speak to her. I have no problem speaking to her or saying a quick hello but this lady just acts like the queen of england at times. I am guessing I get treated this way because I avoid the gossiping the ladies at my workplace do. I have no problem respecting my boss and being cordial but she acted like I had to speak to her first before she could speak to me. I have also noticed that it seems like one of my coworkers who i talk with more frequently is always trying to ask about my personal life. I sometimes think some of the ladies who are curious about me use this girl as a way to get info.
i dont gossip because i know eventually it will get someone fired and it also makes people not trust you
lol, i didn't know that it was protocol for the queen to speak first.
Yeah, i find it out that she would do that, she kept walking past me clearing her throat and then i finally figured what she wanted, lol.
the thing is that they people who do things for her, she still treats them crappy
Like yesterday I was organizing some books and she kept walking past me wanting me to speak to her. I have no problem speaking to her or saying a quick hello but this lady just acts like the queen of england at times. I am guessing I get treated this way because I avoid the gossiping the ladies at my workplace do. I have no problem respecting my boss and being cordial but she acted like I had to speak to her first before she could speak to me. I have also noticed that it seems like one of my coworkers who i talk with more frequently is always trying to ask about my personal life. I sometimes think some of the ladies who are curious about me use this girl as a way to get info.
i dont gossip because i know eventually it will get someone fired and it also makes people not trust you
lol, i didn't know that it was protocol for the queen to speak first.
Yeah, i find it out that she would do that, she kept walking past me clearing her throat and then i finally figured what she wanted, lol.
the thing is that they people who do things for her, she still treats them crappy