Does everyone's girlfriend whine and complain excessively? Is that normal...

[TheGuyWithNoName]

...of having a girlfriend? I grew up my entire life hearing hundreds of guys talk about how all their girlfriends do is whine and complain? Even pop culture has instilled the belief that a woman that can keep up the whining and complain is considered a strong woman? I also have received the social information from people that give females nicknames that represent a person that constantly complains and whines?
AI have socially interacted with maybe 3 or 4 women in my life and saw hundreds of men's girlfriends do complain and whine ot the point of insanity..Is this normal and healthy? Should I forget the girlfriend and wife decision? I am 29 years old and confused greatly...

 

[MarsD]

my boyfriend tells me that all i do is whine and complain but i just try to help him and voice my opinions...go figure. i think guys just perceive it different.

 

[njgrl622]

Only whimps that don't know how to make themselves happy whine. If you don't like something - CHANGE IT -

A real woman is one that doesn't b*icth & cry all the time about how everything S*cks - A real woman can take care of herself and make herself happy!

When you find that woman - she's the one to marry! Do you really want someone that depends on you to "complete" her? No, you should want to marry someone that can "share" your life with - not suck the life out of you!

 

[JennandMike]

No, it is not normal. If you are not comfortable with her...move on. Period. Don't waste your time of a relationship that you will just be miserable in.
Believe me, there are women out there who are strong and confident and don't whine. One day, you will meet the woman of your dreams. Just don't be in a hurry.

 

[Falafelsoftball]

If you think all women are annoying, I guess I would suggest not having a girlfriend. However, maybe there are women out there that you don't find quite so unbearable. Also, I am pretty sure all humans, no matter which gender, are annoying and complain a lot. Think if you complain just as much as your girlfriend. For instance, this is complaining - right here, on the internet.

 

[JazminG]

Well almost all girls bitch and conplain mostly all the
time now if the girl is constantly bitching and complaining about everything thats just not right and no guy should put up with that
i mean im a girl and yea i coplain and bitch but not about every
little thing im more like chill like one of the guys but feminine
I DONT BITCH ABOUT EVERYTHING if your girl is like this either talk to her and she changes if not leave her man 4realz!