Hello. I'm in my first same sex relationship. I'm 32 years old, he's 30. It's also his first same sex relationship. We've had a secret relationship for the past 7 months. He's separating from his wife, and he has four children but he was already seeing other women at the time when I met him. We had a wonderful relationship for the first four months, doing everything together and we couldn't get enough of each other then again, we've only kissed and touched, and we haven't had sex yet because he keeps saying that he isn't ready.
He says he's only been with women before, and he is still in touch with some of the women he used to cheat on his wife with, though he says there's nothing going on between them and him. He says he loves me and that we have a future together, however he's been through a financial rough patch and I've basically helped him out for over 6 months.
The thing is, I've caught him making phone calls and sending out suspicious text messages and last week someone saw him in a place where he never told me he was at. He's always been honest about how some of those former sex buddies still text him, but he says he's no longer interested in any of them, and swears that he hasn't cheated on me.
We've had several arguments about infidelity and about getting ready for intimacy, but also we've had moments when he says he really loves me and that there's nobody else in his life. Some times he says that if he was going to cheat on me then he'd do it with a woman because I'm the only guy he's interested in. Then again, I don't know what to believe in anymore. What should I do?
He says he's only been with women before, and he is still in touch with some of the women he used to cheat on his wife with, though he says there's nothing going on between them and him. He says he loves me and that we have a future together, however he's been through a financial rough patch and I've basically helped him out for over 6 months.
The thing is, I've caught him making phone calls and sending out suspicious text messages and last week someone saw him in a place where he never told me he was at. He's always been honest about how some of those former sex buddies still text him, but he says he's no longer interested in any of them, and swears that he hasn't cheated on me.
We've had several arguments about infidelity and about getting ready for intimacy, but also we've had moments when he says he really loves me and that there's nobody else in his life. Some times he says that if he was going to cheat on me then he'd do it with a woman because I'm the only guy he's interested in. Then again, I don't know what to believe in anymore. What should I do?