first time to have sex...how is it...what to expect?

[girl]

how does it feel? does it hurt a lot? how long does it take to penetrate? tell me everything
i am 24 and getting married soon!

 

[ShellinWonderland]

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE only have sex if your in love!!
its a million times better and so beautiful.

I hate my first time it was awkward, it hurt and i was to scared to enjoy it.
now im in love and its beautiful! i just wish i would have waited so my current boyfriend would have been my first.

 

[mechelle_deason]

Every girl is different when my husband took my virginity it hurt me i bleed but nothing to bad but the pain doesn't last that long

 

[moto_man3601]

Too many variables to have one correct answer. Even if people share their experiences, it will not benefit you in any way. All you need to know is that there will be discomfort or even mild pain, there will be blood, and it won't feel right for the first 2 or 3 times. After that, you get in the all clear and you can start getting active with your life. Though, i hope your out of school already...