It is tempting and it is flatering to have some one u are attracted to, want u in the same sexual sense that u want them. However, It does not work. I just found this out this week. We were just friends, but he flirted with me alot, then he finally came out and said that he liked me. His life partner is away on business for a couple of months. So, we began to have sexual relations and for me it was wonderful, but for him, it wasnt as great. I began to think about him alot, like at work, and at home. So when he finally admitted that he did not want to continue this and that, "although he found me attractive," he just did not want to have sex or really hang out with me becuase things were kinda of weird. I was very hurt by all this, but later found out that he was in love with another guy besides his life partner. Right now im hurt, but later on his love triangle will collaspe upon itself. So, no, some people can have sex without felling anything, while others take it in a deeper and more emotional level without any inttention of taking it outside of "Just meaningless Sex". I dont regret it, becuase I was humbled by it. But for anyone who has a monogamous heart and spirit, who thinks they can handle it, "u simply can't." Bottom line, get to know the person first, and realize,"just because the two of u have mutual physical attraction toward one another, that doesnt mean u have mutual spiritual and emotional attraction toward one another"
