Girl lost interest in me. Drop communication, text, or fb message?

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Justfly

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*went on a 1st date.. we both had a blast and for 2-3 days she was SOO into me
*Then for the next 3-5 days I think I may have come accross as desperate because I really liked the girl and thought she was different than previous girls I have dated..well, I think it scared her off cuz she told me last night she decided she doesn't want a bf..
*Her ex bf died 3 years ago so that might be why too but I know she really liked me on/few days after the date.


So, should I just cut communication and see if she comes back, text her "what's up" or write her a facebook message about how I feel/apology?
 
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RandiLynn

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first off, how old are you and her? different ages mean different advice

if you are the age 14-16, then just drop it. u will sound very desperate if u keep trying to talk to her over and over again if she doesnt want to be bothered. girls dont like that.

if you are the age 17-19, then u still sound desperate and she is probably busy. she may like u but if she is in the same age group as you then she probably has a life and is too busy to check her phone.

if your any age above 19, then just wait it out, if she doesnt communicate back with you then move on.
 
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GkokDelonte

New member
yea just cut it off. everyone changes their minds so easily. One day we want a bf/gf and the next we don't.

Has she been feeling down recently? Maybe that's why cuz she doesn't feel like she deserves a bf. If so then just flirt again and boost her confidence and maybe it'll work.
 
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Astrid

Member
I think she's bulls***ing you because she may not have been into you in that way. But it wouldn't hurt to text her and see whats up.
 
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