Girlfriend does not have any taste/sense of fashion.... Any advice to get around...

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...with this? hi I'm with my my girlfriend for 3 years now.. I like her the way she is..

But the only thing that keeps bothering is the way she dresses when we have to go out.... She barely combs her hair, she doesn't know that her shoes doesnt match her dress... etc..

and whenever we are out, she looks so ..... compared to other girls around us that i feel awkward.

I mean she is not self-conscious about her self image.


We talked about this and she agreed to do some effort.. but after 2-3 dates this month, it's the same thing.

Is this a lack of respect towards me/her date?? Is this laziness or reluctance to improve?? Or is this her lack of responsibility causing her to do this?? Or is it because I accepted her the way she is??

(additional info: I use to meet her at her place too and I can understand that being at home she doesn't have to dress up so well even when I'm around.. BUT, when going out, then its something else.. isn't it? ;-) )

any way how can I convince her at least not to change but improve herself.. or else I'm dumping her..
 
'I like her the way she is'

Erm, no you don't.

If you want her to dress up when you go out then take her shopping and buy her some new clothes, and take her to the salon and pay for her to have her hair done.
 
Perhaps she is lacking in confidence..and let's face it, we wouldn't be surprised when we read the way you seem to criticise her. Anyway, why not buy her some clothes as a gift. If she likes them she'll wear them. If not, you have to accept that she has the right to dress as she chooses and if you don't like it.........
 
Perhaps she is lacking in confidence..and let's face it, we wouldn't be surprised when we read the way you seem to criticise her. Anyway, why not buy her some clothes as a gift. If she likes them she'll wear them. If not, you have to accept that she has the right to dress as she chooses and if you don't like it.........
 
You're really dumping her because she's not a fake tart like all the other girls? Because she's not a cookie-cutter woman?

Why don't you tell her how to dress? Tell her to do exactly what you want so you can have your own perfect image of a woman standing next to you all of the time.
 
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