i am in a relationship with a girl since last 2 years. We were together all this time, i was also in her office. recently when i left that place, i joined somewhere else. After 1 month, one day she told me that she forced her boss to give her a party, so he took her for coffee. Then i said when when a guy and a girl goes out for coffe its date, she said no, i agreed saying its just friendly talk, i should not be worried, after some days, i saw here messaging him that she is fine, he wanted to drop her to her home in his car, because she said to him she is not feeling well. Still ok, friends can offer to drop her home. but when i saw her messaging i got suspicious, because till the time i was there she never messaged any one, then i asked, she told she chats with him everyday. i checked the cell phone bills, she chats with him, all the time even by sms, let it be, day, night till 11, whole day on weekends, and also when he is out of station. I Felt very bad, i am possessice, and i love her very much, she also felt bad, she said its not worth chatting to someone when i feel so bad, she said, she will stop chatting him. or she will make him her brother. i felt bad, felt like i m forcing this. i said its ok, i believe u. one month later, she changed her password from where i could see the no of smses sent to him. i asked why she said, she doesnt want me to see whom does she send smses to, i asked did u decreased chatting or messaging him ? she said no i couldnt do it, then did u make him ur brother, she said no i culdnt do it. she said u r trying to make me your puppet. I am not sure, whats going on.. Please help. I dont want to loose her