Guy I like wants to come over, how should I greet him and what should we do?

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Jamie

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There's this guy I've been talking for a month straight but we only hung out once. We plan on hanging out again at my house today but I don't know what to do here.

I know movies and videos on youtube. just some suggestions to do with a guy friend I like. Thanks!

no cooking/board games/playing games.

And how should I greet him? Last time he was over, I was stuck in my room because I didn't know what to say. We only met/hung out once, so I'm not going to run up to him and hug him
He doesn't play video games
 
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Tom

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open the door and be like, heey :) with a smile, guys love a girls smile and don't act different. act like you normally would at school with him or whatever and it's gonna be alright.

answer mine please? thankyou :)
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Rockthat

New member
I was thinking maybe abit of sex? U could greet him in a night gown? but depends if this is casual dating or ur hoping for a friend connection,
 
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ttektt

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you guys should listen to gangsta rap and reminisce about the good old days back in Oakland (Oak-town whoopty-whoo) and roll blunts and sip on Hennesey and maybe throw in a handie for his relaxation factor
 
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DreAeZeR

New member
Well... u r in a fix actually.. lol...
Dont worry.. calm down...

btw, is ths guy Just a "friend".. or something more than tht which makes him different from d other friends of yours..

well y dont u try hanging out somewhere instead of callin him home.. the risks involved r lesser outside than compared to being alone.(u kno what i mean splly when its a guy whom u know since just a month)..

but still if d plan is fixed of spendin time only at home then prepare a list of topics what u can keep on chatting.. as u say No cooking/games,, u have shrinked the options.. and chatting seems 2 be the best option left...go outside n buy something nice to eat while chatting like cookies, chocolates..
show him your house around n discuss some nice memories attached with things in your house.. show him your talents.. ask him abt his family(those things which u havent asked in 1 month) ,interests n tell him about yours....

n lastly if you r ok with it n if he is just a friend,, call 1-2 more friends of yours too.. but ask them to come a li'l bit later.. not at the same time when he comes..the more the merrier...

All the best.. have a great time..
 
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Moi

Member
Um well........do you have a video game you could play?
Something fun, sport-like........

Watching a movie is fine......but you will both sit in silence
you want to interact with him, talk with him

or

How about a cool HIKE?
Get outside.....that way you won't be together on a couch and then end up doing something you should not.....ie....making out and OR more!

Get to know HIM........or do you have a pool table at home?
Good to do something more physical......to laugh....move around
That way you can both open up
 
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BrookeWiloth

New member
If you have netflix instant streaming I'd highly suggest offering him that. If not whatever movies you have lying around would be a good idea too. Just make sure he seems interested in what you're putting on. Suggest going on a walk, that usually helps me create conversation and if he doesn't like playing video games maybe he's more of an outdoors kinda guy.
As for greeting him just act casual. Just invite him in.
Remember to play it cool. Offer him a drink. If he's nervous a drink would help cool him down too. :)
 
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