Has anybody had a really bad casual sex or friends-with-benefits experience?
I feel really alone in my misery --
Here's my story -- one day when I was emotionally vulnerable, I asked to hang out and I got a curt text reply. I started to feel like a walking blow-up doll, and we had a massive argument over the phone.
When I asked why we can't just be platonic, he said he was just being a dude. He accused me of "flirting in conversation" and doing things that indicated that I was up for sex.
I said I wasn't aware and told him to tell me when I'm doing those things so that I could avoid getting used for sex in the future. I felt I did something wrong. He said sure, he could, but if I didn't do any of those things, then why would he want to hang out with me? It would just be boring for him.
He said in a way, I was lucky I even got to hang out with him.
He doesn't feel he did anything wrong.
I think the one thing I did wrong during out argument was not tell him what I thought of him, "Bastard".
* What's your story?
I feel really alone in my misery --
Here's my story -- one day when I was emotionally vulnerable, I asked to hang out and I got a curt text reply. I started to feel like a walking blow-up doll, and we had a massive argument over the phone.
When I asked why we can't just be platonic, he said he was just being a dude. He accused me of "flirting in conversation" and doing things that indicated that I was up for sex.
I said I wasn't aware and told him to tell me when I'm doing those things so that I could avoid getting used for sex in the future. I felt I did something wrong. He said sure, he could, but if I didn't do any of those things, then why would he want to hang out with me? It would just be boring for him.
He said in a way, I was lucky I even got to hang out with him.
He doesn't feel he did anything wrong.
I think the one thing I did wrong during out argument was not tell him what I thought of him, "Bastard".
* What's your story?