Let me just share that if you ever have feelings for a friend of yours who is the same sex and you're not sure of their orientation, LEAVE IT ALONE! I find friendships to be more important, and they're usually hard to come by. The problem is that I recently lost a close friend because I couldn't let it go that he was straight even though I thought the signs pointed to him liking guys. There are plenty of people out there for you to meet, especially over the Internet. Of course there is the issue of coming out...the thing is, whenever you do come out, you'll realize how much easier it is to interact with more gay/bisexual people that could lead to potential relationships. Should you want a final answer from your friend about their orientation or how they feel about you, the best you could do is come out to them; you made the first move and put the ball in their court on what kind of relationship they want to have with you. If nothing is happening, DO NOT WAIT FOR IT. It sucks we can't always get what we want, and if you are struggling with the feelings, you'll lose the things you already have, like friendships. So please don't let things like this take over you. There's not really much of a question here, more of a rant. It really sucks that I pretty much lost a friend, can anyone relate?