okay, i know this is terrible of me, but after some intense text flirting (im15) with this guy from my camp which just ended, we recently told each other we like each other, but the problem is my friend used to have a thing with him and ik she would be mad if she knew. she is having a party in 2 days and he is asking my if we're gona kiss or anything and i said idk because of my friend. my friend is more important to me so i have decided not to do anything with him, but instead go after another guy i like who is going to be at the party. how do i do this without hurting the guy ive been texting with? (we dont only text we talk but we live a while away so thats how we talk now) i dont want to make it seem like more then it is and tell him we should only be friends because it's not like we're in a relationship or were planing to be in one. should i just say nothing to him and see how it goes at the party and just go after my other guy? or would that be unfair to him? after all i did tell him id have to think about it...PLEASE HELP!!!