Help, please?! Why did my friend get so angry about the way my boyfriend and I

sara

Member
greeted each other...? Ok, well, my boyfriend Chris is 17, and I'm 16, and we've been dating for about 8 months, now... We were friends since we were little kids, though, and we both really love each other (and please don't say we can't just because we're teenagers... I know what I feel, and I'm undoubtedly in love with him...) Well, he's been in Australia for a month and a half doing studies as an exchange student. Obviously, I missed him terribly, as he did with me, too. We've talked over webcam a few times, and IMed each other, but haven't had a ton of communication. Well, he came home yesterday, and my friend Viola (she's friends with Chris, as well) and I picked him up at the airport that evening. Well, I was really excited, so as soon as I saw him come out of the terminal, I ran up and hugged him, and I wrapped my legs around his waist, and he put down his bags and held me and kissed me. Well, we were both extremely happy, but Viola seemed sort of frustrated by our bit of PDA... She told me later that night when she slept over my house that she thought it was embarrassing and tasteless of Chris and I to greet each other like that in the middle of an airport... I told her she was overreacting, and that I hadn't seen him in 6 weeks, and that I even saw people smile at us when we did that, but she got all angry and went home... I don't get it... Why is she so mad? WERE we wrong to do that... to greet each other like that, I mean? Or not? I was just really happy to see him... But what's going on with Viola?
 

Kat

Member
There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you did. PDA is perfectly fine as long as it is not over the top, which it did not appear to be in the senario. I'm happy for you that your boyfriend is back and I hope you have fun ;]
 

Voxex3

New member
hmm. i have 2 ideas of what she might be going through.
1) you said earlier that they are Friends also (Chris and Viola) so maybe she likes him too, secretly, so it made her uncomfortable to see you guys so happy, once when i saw my friend having so much fun with her bf, who was my crush i got so mad and left, it sounds like im a bad friend but i really liked him and to see him happy with her made my heart hurt so maybe shes going through the same stuff i did. second (2) she might be jealous you found a great guy and that shes single. so maybe if she is, you could set her up and double date so she wont get so irritated.

anyways that are the possibilities..

Good luck. and if you guys are really close, talk about it.
 
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