I have been seing this guy for about two months. He is sweet kind and dependable. At first i was enjoying all the attention and i was really into him. However we became serious very quickly it was something i felt i needed at the time.
Now to my ex of two years - he broke up with me in july and broke my heart. He was untrustworthy and was always lying to me as he was probaly still seeing his ex here and there as he couldn't tell her about me also he would not commit. I was very into him and forgave things or overlooked things i would never have with someone else. We had a very up and down relationship and we had broken up a few times (his initiation) but only for a few days. After our big break up in July he tried to win me back before i met this guy but i didn't go down that road as something would always happen to piss me off and i felt that he needed to try harder to prove to me that i could trust him. So i would just tell him off and not talk to him for weeks on end. I actually told him to consider me gone forever at one point.
A few weeks ago he rang me and told me that he knew there was someone else and that this was tearing him apart. He also said that he would do everything to prove to me that i could trust him. I told him that these were only words and I didn't care but it started to eat into me and i started to think about him again.
I do have strong feelings for my current boyfriend and he is willing to give me everything my ex didn't a serious committed relationship. However right now i am looking for faults in him and this is not fair. Plus i am thinking of my ex what could have been even though i am not thinking of going back but i can't seem to shake the baggage.
I feel like i need some space to sort out my baggage but how do i do this without compromising my current relationship?
I would be grateful for some help
Now to my ex of two years - he broke up with me in july and broke my heart. He was untrustworthy and was always lying to me as he was probaly still seeing his ex here and there as he couldn't tell her about me also he would not commit. I was very into him and forgave things or overlooked things i would never have with someone else. We had a very up and down relationship and we had broken up a few times (his initiation) but only for a few days. After our big break up in July he tried to win me back before i met this guy but i didn't go down that road as something would always happen to piss me off and i felt that he needed to try harder to prove to me that i could trust him. So i would just tell him off and not talk to him for weeks on end. I actually told him to consider me gone forever at one point.
A few weeks ago he rang me and told me that he knew there was someone else and that this was tearing him apart. He also said that he would do everything to prove to me that i could trust him. I told him that these were only words and I didn't care but it started to eat into me and i started to think about him again.
I do have strong feelings for my current boyfriend and he is willing to give me everything my ex didn't a serious committed relationship. However right now i am looking for faults in him and this is not fair. Plus i am thinking of my ex what could have been even though i am not thinking of going back but i can't seem to shake the baggage.
I feel like i need some space to sort out my baggage but how do i do this without compromising my current relationship?
I would be grateful for some help