Well...the situation is that i have a boyfriend back in India (we have been together only for 3 weeks) he used to be my friend for like 5 years and suddenly i asked him to be mine. He is a great guy. He is very smart, nice and kind of naive. I have like him ever since i met him. I am 18 years old now and though legally i am allowed to go by myself, my brother (father-figure) won't allow it. He doesn't know him and is protective of me. I understand my brother's decision but I love this guy and am afraid to loose him. He also thinks its a bad idea...because he feels uneasy that his girl is going to come half way around the world just for him. I must say he thinks logically and i am more of an action-packed, going with my guts type of a person.