collar to wear all the time? I really want him to be more dominant of me. I want to be his sub and do everything I can to please him, but I think he's worried about upsetting me or making me feel used. He doesn't get that I WANT to feel that way. I suppose you could say it's my fetish! I really want him to collar me and make me a submissive wife. How can I convince him that this is really what I want, and that he's not abusing me!