I'm a 15 year old female and my mother was never really strict until she found traces of marijuana in my drug test. She lost all trust in me and it took me forever to get her to even allow me outside. I understand drinking and smoking is not a habit I'd like to develop but I don't understand why other parents don't care and why parents think its bad, even if the kid does well in school. Why should I not smoke weed and drink? Feedback would be great.