hanikamiya411
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Well i've been with my boyfriend since May and the problem is that i am afraid to introduce him to my parents.
My boyfriend is very first boyfriend ever had, i've never dated before because my parents didn't want me to start dating until i graduate from HS. Well i'm 18 and a graduate from HS, my boyfriend is 20 and he has never had a girlfriend so this is our first relationship kind of thing.My mom is very strict about dating but at the same time she changes alot about the dating rules. Like she met my boyfriend(let's call him Joe) at the mall before we started dating, we start talking for a bit and he gave me his number and my mom was like," Don't call him." Then we got into a 2 hour argument about him and dating, like she already started calling him a player because he just gave me his number like that. Not only that she was like,"You're 18 now, you can date whoever you want, i just prefer asian. Don't call the guy." I ended up calling him anyway.
One day as i was getting ready to go to a party, my friend Ian calls me to tell me that he has already arrived at the party. And my mom was like,"Who called?" i answered,"My friend Ian." She was like,"Ian?The guy that asked you out?" "Yeah but we're not dating. We're just friends." "Ok because you know how your dad hates blacks and Indians." (i know they sound so racist at the moment, don't blame them, they just want to keep tradition) I was like, "I know, i know."
Another night we'd be watching Mythbusters and my mom was like," i want you date someone like him(the asian guy on Mythbusters), clean and smart." I was like,"Well what if i dated someone who is not asian? White? Black? Indian?" She said,"I don't care as long as he is clean and a good boy."
My mom is the type to judge, see if it was just me, joe and mom i know she would just stare at him and disapprove of him. If my dad was around, he'll talk to Joe but after Joe leaves he will disapprove because of his race.
Confusing right? But yeah i am afraid to Introduce Joe to my parents because i know how strict they are, espically my mom, my mom said if i was dating someone who she doesn't like she will not let me see him and take away my car. Joe is not a bad guy, he is really nice, fun, outgoing, and somewhat the opposite of me and very caring and respectful. And not only that he is in the military, he is leaving in September. Joe wants to meet my parents but in a way we are both afriad of the results...well i'm more scared than he is. He keeps asking when can he meet them and i just don't know what to do. i want to continue my relationship with Joe, i want my parents to give him a chance.
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My boyfriend is very first boyfriend ever had, i've never dated before because my parents didn't want me to start dating until i graduate from HS. Well i'm 18 and a graduate from HS, my boyfriend is 20 and he has never had a girlfriend so this is our first relationship kind of thing.My mom is very strict about dating but at the same time she changes alot about the dating rules. Like she met my boyfriend(let's call him Joe) at the mall before we started dating, we start talking for a bit and he gave me his number and my mom was like," Don't call him." Then we got into a 2 hour argument about him and dating, like she already started calling him a player because he just gave me his number like that. Not only that she was like,"You're 18 now, you can date whoever you want, i just prefer asian. Don't call the guy." I ended up calling him anyway.
One day as i was getting ready to go to a party, my friend Ian calls me to tell me that he has already arrived at the party. And my mom was like,"Who called?" i answered,"My friend Ian." She was like,"Ian?The guy that asked you out?" "Yeah but we're not dating. We're just friends." "Ok because you know how your dad hates blacks and Indians." (i know they sound so racist at the moment, don't blame them, they just want to keep tradition) I was like, "I know, i know."
Another night we'd be watching Mythbusters and my mom was like," i want you date someone like him(the asian guy on Mythbusters), clean and smart." I was like,"Well what if i dated someone who is not asian? White? Black? Indian?" She said,"I don't care as long as he is clean and a good boy."
My mom is the type to judge, see if it was just me, joe and mom i know she would just stare at him and disapprove of him. If my dad was around, he'll talk to Joe but after Joe leaves he will disapprove because of his race.
Confusing right? But yeah i am afraid to Introduce Joe to my parents because i know how strict they are, espically my mom, my mom said if i was dating someone who she doesn't like she will not let me see him and take away my car. Joe is not a bad guy, he is really nice, fun, outgoing, and somewhat the opposite of me and very caring and respectful. And not only that he is in the military, he is leaving in September. Joe wants to meet my parents but in a way we are both afriad of the results...well i'm more scared than he is. He keeps asking when can he meet them and i just don't know what to do. i want to continue my relationship with Joe, i want my parents to give him a chance.
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