How do I not feel gross when older men make dirty jokes about my body?

Alice

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I don’t like to be asked out, because it makes me feel a bit sick. However, what really makes me feel ill is when older men say dirty stuff to me. My friends joke about things, but the guys would never say anything about our bodies to us.

It makes me feel really dirty to have stuff said to me. Recently, one man said something and I wanted to cry. I can‘t even stand knowing I have that part of the body, and I already feel it’s very dirty. I guess that even though I don’t want it to exist, it’s mine, and I already had it not really be only mine once when I was little, and I just feel like a random guy talking about it isn’t very nice.

Having gross things said to me doesn’t happen that often. I just forget about it happening normally, but it does creep me out. I’m sure they just mean it as a joke, but it makes me feel guilty. I dress modestly as well, if it matters any.

How do I not feel dirty over stuff like this?

Thank you very much.
I'm sorry if anyone sees this twice, I wasn't exactly positive which section it would make the most sense in. I appreciate your time.
 
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