About a year ago I was in the college halls and I let some other guy borrow my computer for like 10 mins while I was out of the room - anyway i come back and the guy just confronts me all seriously and says 'whats this i've found gay porn on your computer?' - and shows me a link in my history.... At first I thought he was joking and he had just done it himself as some kind of prank but he insisted that it wasn't. So I explained to the guy I wasn't gay and showed him all 200hrs (no exaggeration) of the mostly lesbian porn on my computer.... Anyway, that was the end of that and I genuinely have no idea how the link to a gay site appeared on my computer - either he was lying and it was a prank or somebody else used the computer or it was a pop up or cookie or something. I dont know but i never thought it was an issue because I had several female partners during college.... T
Then about two months ago when i had a bad break up with a girlfriend this stupid douche bag, who is her friend, coincidentally, goes around telling everyone that he found gay porn on my computer blah blah blah e.tc. e.t.c. -
I dont really know how to deal with this because I dont really look at being gay as a particularly negative thing and dont really want to show that i care too much - I dont want to go around shouting 'im not gay.' But the difficulty is that so many people - admittedly even some friends (but mostly those that dont like me) - just assume its true and dont bother asking me about it - What bothers me more than being thought of as gay is the implication that I am a massive liar.....
I am trying to convince myself that i should shrug it off and just not care - people thinking im gay obviously isnot going to make me gay... How should i deal with this?
Then about two months ago when i had a bad break up with a girlfriend this stupid douche bag, who is her friend, coincidentally, goes around telling everyone that he found gay porn on my computer blah blah blah e.tc. e.t.c. -
I dont really know how to deal with this because I dont really look at being gay as a particularly negative thing and dont really want to show that i care too much - I dont want to go around shouting 'im not gay.' But the difficulty is that so many people - admittedly even some friends (but mostly those that dont like me) - just assume its true and dont bother asking me about it - What bothers me more than being thought of as gay is the implication that I am a massive liar.....
I am trying to convince myself that i should shrug it off and just not care - people thinking im gay obviously isnot going to make me gay... How should i deal with this?