penguin004
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girls, what would let you know a guy is interested in you? remember the person im talking about is barely a freind. we only talk sometimes and when we do, its brief. how do i let her now i like her without being to foward?
how do i show my interest in a girl?
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Most attractive thing is confidence. Let her know you like her without being obnoxious or seem needy and desperate. Play it cool. Go up to her in the hallway or passing by her locker and day hey and ask how her day's been going. Maybe build up the courage to ask her number and text her from time to time. She will get the message quickly; girls tend to pick up on this stuff fast. To not be too forward just make your advances spread out, don't make her feel stalked or uncomfortable. Talk to her a few times a week, not every day, text her once very 3-4 days. Let her know without putting to much pressure, the rest is on her. good luck!
For you to get the best type of answer you should be a bit more informative on how exactly you both even bring up a conversation.
Is she a neighbor ? school mate? friends of a friend? relative of someone you know?
The best way of someone that I hardly speak with to show me that they are interested in me with out being to forward would start with him complimenting me on something I am wearing, the style of my hair, my perfume scent followed by me thanking him; the next move is just observe her reaction, body language, facial expression towards the compliment. If is good indicators then hey, next time you see her say something like foe example "You aren't wearing that ( think you complimented her on previously) but that (whatever you want to compliment her on) is very nice too, you really know how to choose your stuff" and smile and again observe for the good indications and if you want to do similar things a few more times until she gets used to you always noticing her style or whatever makes her her then you take it up a notch by saying something like "So being that you are the girl with the fly style around here (something in does terms, just putt it in your own words) I wanted to ask you to show me where you shop cause I have to buy something for my (sister/mom/cousin) do when are you free? and bammmmmmmmmmm you got a none pressured date and then whatever she says you determine what is going to happen next, but is smooth and not aggressive.
I think is a workable solution for you, I do hope it helps.
Is she a neighbor ? school mate? friends of a friend? relative of someone you know?
The best way of someone that I hardly speak with to show me that they are interested in me with out being to forward would start with him complimenting me on something I am wearing, the style of my hair, my perfume scent followed by me thanking him; the next move is just observe her reaction, body language, facial expression towards the compliment. If is good indicators then hey, next time you see her say something like foe example "You aren't wearing that ( think you complimented her on previously) but that (whatever you want to compliment her on) is very nice too, you really know how to choose your stuff" and smile and again observe for the good indications and if you want to do similar things a few more times until she gets used to you always noticing her style or whatever makes her her then you take it up a notch by saying something like "So being that you are the girl with the fly style around here (something in does terms, just putt it in your own words) I wanted to ask you to show me where you shop cause I have to buy something for my (sister/mom/cousin) do when are you free? and bammmmmmmmmmm you got a none pressured date and then whatever she says you determine what is going to happen next, but is smooth and not aggressive.
I think is a workable solution for you, I do hope it helps.
Ask her out on a date!
I don't care who you are, no girl is going to not be flattered when asked out on a genuine date. And I don't mean, "Hey you wanna chill?". No, I mean, "Hey, so would you like to go out sometime?"
The worst she can say is no. Not as big of a deal as you might think.
Just don't try to sleep with her even if she wants it, and don't say I love you.
You're good,
xoxo
I don't care who you are, no girl is going to not be flattered when asked out on a genuine date. And I don't mean, "Hey you wanna chill?". No, I mean, "Hey, so would you like to go out sometime?"
The worst she can say is no. Not as big of a deal as you might think.
Just don't try to sleep with her even if she wants it, and don't say I love you.
You're good,
xoxo
like the other person said talk to her. Maybe invite her to a social gathering of some sort. Even if you don't have one coming up, try to find an event your going to in the future and invite her to come along if she has similar interest in that thing. Such as a concert for a band you both like