SimplyIrresistable
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I don't like gossip. If it's not my business - who cares? To say this blunty (don't mean to be rude) but if it doesn't effect me, then I really don't care b/c I would prefer to focus on my what's going on in my life. I like to keep my personal life private b/c it seems that everywhere you go there are always going to be curious and nosy people.
I'm a loyal friend. If a friend were to tell me her private issues, the best I could do is listen and offer my opinion, if asked. Lately, I've been dealing with people asking me questions about her - they figure since i'm "close" w. her (or they see us w. pics together online, they assume i know everything about her), then I would know everything. I personally find it rude. I understand people are curious but why would you ask ME? I don't speak for people and I'm not one to spread people's business BUT if it's a FACT, then sure. (a "fact" is NOT an opinion or speculation. it is a confirmed idea or statement). If i were to say, "yes her and that guy are friends", people get upset at me for not furthur explaining myself. Others say, "why can't you just tell me?" Well, I understand I'm your friend but I'm not responsible for getting "information".
Am I a prick? I just feel unconfortable giving out information that's not my business.
I'm a loyal friend. If a friend were to tell me her private issues, the best I could do is listen and offer my opinion, if asked. Lately, I've been dealing with people asking me questions about her - they figure since i'm "close" w. her (or they see us w. pics together online, they assume i know everything about her), then I would know everything. I personally find it rude. I understand people are curious but why would you ask ME? I don't speak for people and I'm not one to spread people's business BUT if it's a FACT, then sure. (a "fact" is NOT an opinion or speculation. it is a confirmed idea or statement). If i were to say, "yes her and that guy are friends", people get upset at me for not furthur explaining myself. Others say, "why can't you just tell me?" Well, I understand I'm your friend but I'm not responsible for getting "information".
Am I a prick? I just feel unconfortable giving out information that's not my business.